Letters from Linda is a periodic letter written by Linda Caine in response to topics and questions being discussed in the site forum (forum.lindacaine.com). Linda uses this to keep in touch with forum users as a whole, as well as the answer to many specific contributors of the forum.

Dreams can come true! This is a beautiful pseudonym, and it always lifts my spirit to see it – not only because you are such a lovely encourager, ‘Dreams can come true’, but also because this forum is, itself, a dream come true and an answer to prayer. It has been incredible to watch it evolve over the last few months, from a few tentative letters, to a support group so caring that I can barely keep up with all of you. There have been many occasions when one of you has been going through a difficult time, or a new person has joined us, and I have printed the entries out and carried them with me so that I can read over them and work on a reply wherever I happen to be. However, I have learned that unless I am able to reply immediately, my response is outdated because the people have already been encouraged/welcomed by all of you. As a result, my stack of ‘too late’ letters has grown higher and higher, while I cheer you all on whenever I am able to catch up with your posts.

I will try, as time permits, to answer questions that specifically ask for my point of view on an issue/subject. However, as the forum actually reflects only a small percentage of those who write in (most readers still tend to send private e-mails) I feel I will be able to cover many issues more thoroughly if I sort through the letters that ask similar questions, and address different subjects in the form of a letter. I was going to make it a monthly, or bi-monthly letter, but I think I will keep it more flexible, and write as questions on certain subjects dictate.

As you know, Robin initially used the goat track as an example of psychotherapy, and it is a wonderful analogy of the process he and I went through. However, I think it is also a brilliant description of life itself. The conclusion of my therapy with Robin was just the end of that particular path. Since then, my life has taken many different turns, and I have walked with many friends along the way. This forum is just another aspect of the goat track; a place where we are able to meet, share, encourage and pray for each other, coming alongside those of us who are experiencing hard times and trials, and celebrating with those who are enjoying times of happiness, healing and victory.

I find that life is a constant balance of holding onto, and celebrating, the good and uplifting things, while facing and working through the difficult ones.

So let’s keep praying for, and encouraging each other!

With love to you all,

xx